Comments on: Risk Takers and Risk Makers

By: Bobby Gruenewald

Bobby Gruenewald — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:03:56 +0000

Barry,

Thanks for the question.

I want to be sure that I don’t imply from the post that all criticism should be ignored or dismissed. Often criticism contains truth that needs to be considered. Especially from those closest to you who can often see things you can’t.

This post is really about letting the fear of criticism stop you from trying new things or making important decisions. Most of the citicism I’m talking about in the post often comes from people I know (that is what makes it risky to me).

My quick critcism tips (I may put in a longer post sometime)

Criticism from non-credible sources (almost always ignore)

Criticism from credible sources (it is necessary and can make you better…it should never be ignored, but never be feared)

By: Barry Armstrong

Barry Armstrong — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 13:48:44 +0000

Criticism from outside your circle is relatively easy to deal with, constructive or not. From within your circle, well meaning or not, is more of a challenge, especially if you don’t see what they see. How have you dealt with this?

By: Jon Perrin

Jon Perrin — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:40:12 +0000

We have to remember that resistance is part of the process of innovation. There are those that see it as their job to defend the status quo… and when we push for change, that puts us in their sights.

Jesus faced this (Mk. 11:28, Jn. 11:48); as did Paul (Acts 19:27). Opposition is a normal result of leadership, vision and innovation because, as John Maxwell puts it, “Leadership, just like a magnet, attracts some and repels others.”

By: pete hixson

pete hixson — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 17:03:55 +0000

being around negative people in general make me want to be that much more of a positive person - so in that sense, they help me too.

Great way to look at this and make the most of it - since we can’t kill people that want to bring us down! Just kidding……..

By: Kenyon

Kenyon — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 14:12:58 +0000

Yes. The negative stuff makes me work out harder and thus increases my health. But it also drives me to seek God and make sure that I know that I know what he has said.

By: aaron

aaron — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:23:19 +0000

if it’s a risk that is the purpose of our movement, or to silence the critics…we are off base from the start. We should lead out of Godly insanity, not our own.

By: daniel d

daniel d — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:21:02 +0000

seems to me the critics and naysayers don’t have enough faith that God can do anything through anyone. i love when someone says i can’t do something. i tell them, “you’re right but God can through me.”

By: Sovann

Sovann — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:13:37 +0000

Unfortunately, I never leave home without my (worst) inner critic. I spank him with John Maxwell - definately been helping me this week.

By: jabberfrog

jabberfrog — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 23:12:41 +0000

criticism is what forces me to return to the root of why i’m doing it in the first place. keeps me centered. praise (as much as i love it) can knock me off-focus and tempt me into thinking i had anything to do with it in the first place.

By: Cheryl Jane Dempsey

Cheryl Jane Dempsey — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 22:31:54 +0000

Upon reflection, the Prayer of Jabez has motivated me to dare to move beyond my personal boundaries, and extend myself to experience spiritual growth and maturity beyond my comfort zone.Certainly, not an easy undertaking , but I have realized a very rewarding one.My journey is a Faith walk, and I expect that there will be risks, choices, and challenges along the way., I have grown the most, I found, in the midst of those risks, challenges, and difficult choices.and I thank GOD for every one of them.. for without these “bumps in the road” , I would’nt be who I have become today.. ..I believe, a better person. So yes, I would agree, much good comes from every adverse experience.. for me, I got to know JESUS a lot better during those times, and we have become much closer.. he truly is my very best friend for ever and ever, and for everything that has happened to me up until now I am GRATEFUL.!Thanks be to GOD.

By: adamf

adamf — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 20:54:28 +0000

If you listened to Michael Phelps in the Olympics, he said that critics and challengers to his vision were exactly what motivated him more than anything else.

By: Bryon Leonard

Bryon Leonard — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 20:47:46 +0000

Didn’t God say something like fearnot for I am with you, and you will be persicuted (critisized, or something like that. Wouldn’t it be a testimony if we took a risk and stood on faith?

By: Tom Beagan

Tom Beagan — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 19:08:05 +0000

This is an extremely valuable insight since criticism is such a norm with leadership. We can always remind ourselves that if we look at the Bible we are in good company but that doesn’t make it any easier. I like the thought of facing each criticism as a challenge to learn and excel. As hard as it is emotionally, I tell people if you don’t tell me what’s wrong, it can’t be fixed. Likewise, if there were no obstacles we would never rise to overcome them.

By: Matt Farina

Matt Farina — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 18:18:25 +0000

I think you might have hit on something that hits a certain type of personality. There are people who won’t take risks until they are challenged. They need that for fuel. I’m one of those.

Risk (or lack of) is a big issue for the church (all Gods people). Last week some the Super Average Podcast we talked all about the idea of risk - http://www.superaveragepodcast.com/episode/21.

I’d love to see more people take more good risks from church leaders to those who just occasionally sit in the pews.

By: Shaun King

Shaun King — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 18:14:45 +0000

Dealing with major criticism for our church planting dream down here in Atlanta. It motivates me as well. However, I have to admit that I don’t enjoy criticism as much as praise. It may help more though!