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	<title>Comments on: Failure to Try</title>
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		<title>By: Todd Ruth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Todd Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 20:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is one that I struggle with. Not out of laziness but out of fear of what people may think of me - and I hate it. I hate giving into that fear, but it can be so paralyzing sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is one that I struggle with. Not out of laziness but out of fear of what people may think of me - and I hate it. I hate giving into that fear, but it can be so paralyzing sometimes.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/07/16/failure-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-156296</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 14:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bobby,

It seems like failing was easier when there wasn't as much to "lose."  After our church finally broke the 200 mark I remember another pastor saying "now it's serious because you've got something to lose."  How true.  You are so right that we've got to keep putting ourselves out there, it's the only way to grow as individuals.  This is a great reminder to take risks...thanks Bobby!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bobby,</p>
<p>It seems like failing was easier when there wasn&#8217;t as much to &#8220;lose.&#8221;  After our church finally broke the 200 mark I remember another pastor saying &#8220;now it&#8217;s serious because you&#8217;ve got something to lose.&#8221;  How true.  You are so right that we&#8217;ve got to keep putting ourselves out there, it&#8217;s the only way to grow as individuals.  This is a great reminder to take risks&#8230;thanks Bobby!</p>
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		<title>By: Christy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 12:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jason - Thanks for that quote! - One of my biggest fears and hindrances to trying something is a fear that I will make the wrong choice (and thus fail) - that I will somehow "miss" God - even in the midst of my seeking - so thanks for sharing!  A scripture that often comforts me is Isaiah 30:21: 

"Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason - Thanks for that quote! - One of my biggest fears and hindrances to trying something is a fear that I will make the wrong choice (and thus fail) - that I will somehow &#8220;miss&#8221; God - even in the midst of my seeking - so thanks for sharing!  A scripture that often comforts me is Isaiah 30:21: </p>
<p>&#8220;Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, &#8220;This is the way; walk in it.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Failure to try &#171; Inspired Reflections</title>
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		<dc:creator>Failure to try &#171; Inspired Reflections</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to&#160;try  Here is the follow-up post about failure.  It mentions many of the things I said in my previous blog [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to&nbsp;try  Here is the follow-up post about failure.  It mentions many of the things I said in my previous blog [...]</p>
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		<title>By: lundstudio</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/07/16/failure-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-156287</link>
		<dc:creator>lundstudio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 04:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>failing to try... I think I am failing right now to make tough decisions. 

it's tough to have people constantly question or hammer on your teams work. even if it is true.. it's hard to get Google or Disney quality overnight especially at a 300 MPH pace. 

homerun projects really do not matter when the basics are executed poorly. for me it's a constant juggle of priority, big vision requests and stretched resources. after a while we have to do a lot of cleanup and redirecting.

I owned and sold a small new media firm back in 1999. I got my rear kicked by a $8.6 billion dollar company in a domain battle. it really felt like a failure at the time. I even had some peers raz me about heading back to big corporate mama... funny. God taught me so many things through all of that uncertainty. obedience and risking it all is worth the effort even if we can't see the immediate reward, even when at first glance it looks like a failure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>failing to try&#8230; I think I am failing right now to make tough decisions. </p>
<p>it&#8217;s tough to have people constantly question or hammer on your teams work. even if it is true.. it&#8217;s hard to get Google or Disney quality overnight especially at a 300 MPH pace. </p>
<p>homerun projects really do not matter when the basics are executed poorly. for me it&#8217;s a constant juggle of priority, big vision requests and stretched resources. after a while we have to do a lot of cleanup and redirecting.</p>
<p>I owned and sold a small new media firm back in 1999. I got my rear kicked by a $8.6 billion dollar company in a domain battle. it really felt like a failure at the time. I even had some peers raz me about heading back to big corporate mama&#8230; funny. God taught me so many things through all of that uncertainty. obedience and risking it all is worth the effort even if we can&#8217;t see the immediate reward, even when at first glance it looks like a failure.</p>
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		<title>By: aaron dewinter</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/07/16/failure-to-try/comment-page-1/#comment-156284</link>
		<dc:creator>aaron dewinter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 03:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great thought and post. I just got done reading an older book from Ed Young and a newer one from Ryan Dobson. In both it talked about these very topics.
a. we'll have wreckage no matter what that looks like to you or means.
b. wreckage (failure) doesn't have to be bad. it stinks yes, but we can learn a lot and in fact Jesus promises failure to us.
c. not taking risk=slothfulness. slothfulness=knowing you should do something, but deciding not to act at all. this is far worse than any failure. it is automatic failure!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great thought and post. I just got done reading an older book from Ed Young and a newer one from Ryan Dobson. In both it talked about these very topics.<br />
a. we&#8217;ll have wreckage no matter what that looks like to you or means.<br />
b. wreckage (failure) doesn&#8217;t have to be bad. it stinks yes, but we can learn a lot and in fact Jesus promises failure to us.<br />
c. not taking risk=slothfulness. slothfulness=knowing you should do something, but deciding not to act at all. this is far worse than any failure. it is automatic failure!</p>
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		<title>By: Jan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 02:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not sure I would call this a failure, but it did feel like it. I served as the worship leader in a church plant for 3 1/2 years and eventually was asked to step down because they decided they didn't think it was right for a woman to lead worship. This humiliated and crushed me. While I dealt with the anger and forgiveness issues in the first few years, it took me at least 10 years to deal with how it made me feel about myself. But I have become so much more convinced of my calling as a result. It has really nailed that down for me as I've worked through it. But it wasn't fun. And I was afraid to try again. But I did....:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not sure I would call this a failure, but it did feel like it. I served as the worship leader in a church plant for 3 1/2 years and eventually was asked to step down because they decided they didn&#8217;t think it was right for a woman to lead worship. This humiliated and crushed me. While I dealt with the anger and forgiveness issues in the first few years, it took me at least 10 years to deal with how it made me feel about myself. But I have become so much more convinced of my calling as a result. It has really nailed that down for me as I&#8217;ve worked through it. But it wasn&#8217;t fun. And I was afraid to try again. But I did&#8230;.:)</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Chowdhury</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Chowdhury</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 19:38:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A huge failure I will never forget (but have learned from much) is when I tried to pioneer a campus ministry at my university.  It was a worthy endeavor, but my approach was where I failed.  Instead of focusing on &lt;b&gt;relationships&lt;/b&gt; (spending time with people), I thought I could just transplant my youth group out there and wait for the folks to come rolling in.  What I learned is how my ministry approach must be developed &lt;b&gt;for the people I am trying to reach&lt;/b&gt; - this takes &lt;i&gt;prayer&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;work&lt;/i&gt;.  Also, it's all about relationships and taking the risk to meet people &lt;b&gt;on their terms&lt;/b&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A huge failure I will never forget (but have learned from much) is when I tried to pioneer a campus ministry at my university.  It was a worthy endeavor, but my approach was where I failed.  Instead of focusing on <b>relationships</b> (spending time with people), I thought I could just transplant my youth group out there and wait for the folks to come rolling in.  What I learned is how my ministry approach must be developed <b>for the people I am trying to reach</b> - this takes <i>prayer</i> and <i>work</i>.  Also, it&#8217;s all about relationships and taking the risk to meet people <b>on their terms</b>.</p>
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		<title>By: jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 19:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“The man or woman who is wholly or joyously surrendered to Christ can’t make a wrong choice–any choice will be the right one.”

~A.W. Tozer

Walk in confidence that in your own human ability you will be failure proned!  But God is THE FATHER of redemption!

I think we are meant sometimes to fail. Look at Peter... He was passionate and purposeful, but failed... Or did he??  Keep your hope in the Sovereignty of God and live it out choice by choice.

I find it interesting we never see God's 10 year plan.  Only ours...  Just enough light for the step we are on. 

It seems like He's more concerned with growing our faith. Habakkuk 2:3,4

My most memorable failure, my marriage. I was addicted to gambling and kept it all from my wife.  She left and divorced.  But God...  Years later here we are watching God put things back together in His perfect timing. He is SO GRACIOUS! 

John 6:63, Zec 4:6</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“The man or woman who is wholly or joyously surrendered to Christ can’t make a wrong choice–any choice will be the right one.”</p>
<p>~A.W. Tozer</p>
<p>Walk in confidence that in your own human ability you will be failure proned!  But God is THE FATHER of redemption!</p>
<p>I think we are meant sometimes to fail. Look at Peter&#8230; He was passionate and purposeful, but failed&#8230; Or did he??  Keep your hope in the Sovereignty of God and live it out choice by choice.</p>
<p>I find it interesting we never see God&#8217;s 10 year plan.  Only ours&#8230;  Just enough light for the step we are on. </p>
<p>It seems like He&#8217;s more concerned with growing our faith. Habakkuk 2:3,4</p>
<p>My most memorable failure, my marriage. I was addicted to gambling and kept it all from my wife.  She left and divorced.  But God&#8230;  Years later here we are watching God put things back together in His perfect timing. He is SO GRACIOUS! </p>
<p>John 6:63, Zec 4:6</p>
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		<title>By: Bill (cycleguy)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bill (cycleguy)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:54:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bobby,

One of the most devastating feelings of failure happened in 2000.  After 13 years at a church I was sort of, kind of, asked/suggested I leave.  It was one of those "either he goes or I go" deals.  I was crushed.  I was given 6 months severance and spent the next 6 months pondering what I wanted to do.  I rode my bike a lot.  I delivered pizzas &#38; worked in a pizza shop (and found out that I didn't want to do that for the rest of my life).  At the end of the 6 months I had a chance to preach again and that church asked me to be their pastor.  If "felt" good to be wanted again but it still took me some time to recover.  I am now at a good place after 5 years there and having it cemented in me what type of church I wanted to pastor/start.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bobby,</p>
<p>One of the most devastating feelings of failure happened in 2000.  After 13 years at a church I was sort of, kind of, asked/suggested I leave.  It was one of those &#8220;either he goes or I go&#8221; deals.  I was crushed.  I was given 6 months severance and spent the next 6 months pondering what I wanted to do.  I rode my bike a lot.  I delivered pizzas &amp; worked in a pizza shop (and found out that I didn&#8217;t want to do that for the rest of my life).  At the end of the 6 months I had a chance to preach again and that church asked me to be their pastor.  If &#8220;felt&#8221; good to be wanted again but it still took me some time to recover.  I am now at a good place after 5 years there and having it cemented in me what type of church I wanted to pastor/start.</p>
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		<title>By: Chilly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chilly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Bobby, as a church planter I have found myself in the middle of so many failures over the last 4 years.  I knew nothing about life in the inner-city, or construction (converting a bar to a 'church'), or fundraising, etc...

But, hey, I'm like Rocky Balboa - knock me down, and I'll climb back up the ropes of my calling again, and again, and again! God's in my corner and Christ is in my heart. Heck, WE HAVE TO FIGHT TO WIN! The apostle Paul makes that clear and I'm sure all of those awaiting us in the grandstands would echo Paul's admonition: "Fight the good fight" - yeah, FIGHT. We must refuse to stay down.

Henry Ford said, "Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently." - I hope I've done this!

Thanks for reading my ramblings...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Bobby, as a church planter I have found myself in the middle of so many failures over the last 4 years.  I knew nothing about life in the inner-city, or construction (converting a bar to a &#8216;church&#8217;), or fundraising, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>But, hey, I&#8217;m like Rocky Balboa - knock me down, and I&#8217;ll climb back up the ropes of my calling again, and again, and again! God&#8217;s in my corner and Christ is in my heart. Heck, WE HAVE TO FIGHT TO WIN! The apostle Paul makes that clear and I&#8217;m sure all of those awaiting us in the grandstands would echo Paul&#8217;s admonition: &#8220;Fight the good fight&#8221; - yeah, FIGHT. We must refuse to stay down.</p>
<p>Henry Ford said, &#8220;Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.&#8221; - I hope I&#8217;ve done this!</p>
<p>Thanks for reading my ramblings&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm...good stuff Bobby. I need to take more risk. Wow. Thanks for posting this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm&#8230;good stuff Bobby. I need to take more risk. Wow. Thanks for posting this!</p>
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