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	<title>Comments on: Authentic and Transparent Communication</title>
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		<title>By: Authentic Preaching &#171; Resources for Preachers and Teachers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Authentic Preaching &#171; Resources for Preachers and Teachers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 17:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]  Posted on May 2, 2008 by brentonbalvin   More from Craig Groeschel&#8230; The younger audience today has a built in authentic-meter. You can preach with passion, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Meningslösa stölder &#124; Kristofer upp-och-ner</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-144881</link>
		<dc:creator>Meningslösa stölder &#124; Kristofer upp-och-ner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 13:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] stjäla, utan också fullständigt meningslöst i det här fallet. Craig, pastor i Lifechurch.tv skriver om att de som lyssnar känner sånt: The younger audience today has a built in authentic-meter. You can preach with passion, humor, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] stjäla, utan också fullständigt meningslöst i det här fallet. Craig, pastor i Lifechurch.tv skriver om att de som lyssnar känner sånt: The younger audience today has a built in authentic-meter. You can preach with passion, humor, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jared B.</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-144188</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 23:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great stuff Craig!</description>
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		<title>By: steve</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143616</link>
		<dc:creator>steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 20:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know this post about authenticity and transparency is directed to pastors...I would think that pastors are looking for their congregation/attenders/partners to be authentic, transparent, being the real you in the same sense...for me that is who I want to spend time with; whether my pastor(s), my lifegroup, or my friends at church/work/everywhere I am looking for those who are real...not one who is putting up a facade or bringing his Sunday best... let's be Christ followers that bring ourselves and are sold out to make Jesus famous...I appreciate these posts as I can take what I learn and hear to become a better husband/dad/employee...thanks for blessing me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know this post about authenticity and transparency is directed to pastors&#8230;I would think that pastors are looking for their congregation/attenders/partners to be authentic, transparent, being the real you in the same sense&#8230;for me that is who I want to spend time with; whether my pastor(s), my lifegroup, or my friends at church/work/everywhere I am looking for those who are real&#8230;not one who is putting up a facade or bringing his Sunday best&#8230; let&#8217;s be Christ followers that bring ourselves and are sold out to make Jesus famous&#8230;I appreciate these posts as I can take what I learn and hear to become a better husband/dad/employee&#8230;thanks for blessing me!</p>
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		<title>By: Camey</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143422</link>
		<dc:creator>Camey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There's this story of a little boy who was sitting next to his mother during a visiting pastor's sermon one day. The mother wondered why the little boy had such a sad sad look upon his face as the man was preaching. Although the mother really could not get into what he was saying, she thought maybe in some way it was getting through to her little boy. So, as they were leaving, the mother said to her little boy, "Son? Is there any thing about what the preacher said that you would like to talk about?" The little boy looked down at his feet and merely said, "I wish he believed one single word he said." Out of the mouths of babes. That little boy grew up and become a preacher... Those who know him say that he is one of the most authentic preachers they have ever known or heard. It is not uncommon for him to get emotional as he preaches. It is also common for him to hug little children as they come up to him wanting to know more about Jesus. (His name I am not allowed to share.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s this story of a little boy who was sitting next to his mother during a visiting pastor&#8217;s sermon one day. The mother wondered why the little boy had such a sad sad look upon his face as the man was preaching. Although the mother really could not get into what he was saying, she thought maybe in some way it was getting through to her little boy. So, as they were leaving, the mother said to her little boy, &#8220;Son? Is there any thing about what the preacher said that you would like to talk about?&#8221; The little boy looked down at his feet and merely said, &#8220;I wish he believed one single word he said.&#8221; Out of the mouths of babes. That little boy grew up and become a preacher&#8230; Those who know him say that he is one of the most authentic preachers they have ever known or heard. It is not uncommon for him to get emotional as he preaches. It is also common for him to hug little children as they come up to him wanting to know more about Jesus. (His name I am not allowed to share.)</p>
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		<title>By: Jenn Cady</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143270</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenn Cady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 02:42:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Post Craig! I agree completely. Pastors, I beg you please just be the real deal! Craig does this and we appreciate it more than he probably knows! People in general have enough fluff thrown at them every day and they seek authenticity! So just be ...who God called you to be!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Post Craig! I agree completely. Pastors, I beg you please just be the real deal! Craig does this and we appreciate it more than he probably knows! People in general have enough fluff thrown at them every day and they seek authenticity! So just be &#8230;who God called you to be!</p>
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		<title>By: Making A Splash &#187; Transparency in teaching &#38; preaching</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143232</link>
		<dc:creator>Making A Splash &#187; Transparency in teaching &#38; preaching</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 23:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post by Craig Groeschel resonated a lot with me.  He lists five transparency questions we should be answering when we teach the Bible.  Man that is the truth.  I find that I am really not very comfortable teaching on a text unless I have wrestled with it myself. And when I have allowed God to work with me through the text, my passion comes out.  When my passion comes out, excitement comes out in my speaking. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post by Craig Groeschel resonated a lot with me.  He lists five transparency questions we should be answering when we teach the Bible.  Man that is the truth.  I find that I am really not very comfortable teaching on a text unless I have wrestled with it myself. And when I have allowed God to work with me through the text, my passion comes out.  When my passion comes out, excitement comes out in my speaking. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kendra Golden</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143199</link>
		<dc:creator>Kendra Golden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 22:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since I have met (and know to varying degrees) the different guys that teach here at LC, I think I tend to rate thei messages based on this very factor.  My favorites tend to be the ones where I can see the person. 

I think this is just as true with worship pastors (even when they don't talk, you can just sense it). Transparency and openness draws me in to worship more than the perfectly composed set.

This also reminds me of the thought, it's hard to lead people where you haven't been yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since I have met (and know to varying degrees) the different guys that teach here at LC, I think I tend to rate thei messages based on this very factor.  My favorites tend to be the ones where I can see the person. </p>
<p>I think this is just as true with worship pastors (even when they don&#8217;t talk, you can just sense it). Transparency and openness draws me in to worship more than the perfectly composed set.</p>
<p>This also reminds me of the thought, it&#8217;s hard to lead people where you haven&#8217;t been yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Bill (cycleguy)</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143182</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill (cycleguy)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 20:50:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>C,

Great post!  For years I tried to be like other well-known pastors.  Tried to preach like them in everything-length, delivery, etc.  It got me what I didn't want-a fake.  If other pastors are like me they suffered from insecurity and inadequacy.  I was so low down on myself that I tried to copy.  Freedom came when I realized that God wanted me to be me, or should I say His?  This came to light for me just yesterday.  I am preaching a Confessions of a Pastor series (a take off from your book) and I talked about my struggle with my prayer life. One of the ladies came up to me and said, "I love this series.  It is so good to know you are like me."  I took that as a compliment.  We have enough sharp people who know inauthenticity when they see it.  Now...this week is on purity. Let's see how many think that afterwards.  :)  

Thanks again C for hitting the nail on the head.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>C,</p>
<p>Great post!  For years I tried to be like other well-known pastors.  Tried to preach like them in everything-length, delivery, etc.  It got me what I didn&#8217;t want-a fake.  If other pastors are like me they suffered from insecurity and inadequacy.  I was so low down on myself that I tried to copy.  Freedom came when I realized that God wanted me to be me, or should I say His?  This came to light for me just yesterday.  I am preaching a Confessions of a Pastor series (a take off from your book) and I talked about my struggle with my prayer life. One of the ladies came up to me and said, &#8220;I love this series.  It is so good to know you are like me.&#8221;  I took that as a compliment.  We have enough sharp people who know inauthenticity when they see it.  Now&#8230;this week is on purity. Let&#8217;s see how many think that afterwards.  <img src='http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Thanks again C for hitting the nail on the head.</p>
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		<title>By: Rhett Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rhett Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 17:08:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig:

Great post.  Thanks for sharing your insight.  I work with college students and I would say that transparency and authenticity are the most important thing to them in the preaching of God's Word. If those things aren't present in the speaker, then they won't listen to what the speaker has to say.

rhett</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig:</p>
<p>Great post.  Thanks for sharing your insight.  I work with college students and I would say that transparency and authenticity are the most important thing to them in the preaching of God&#8217;s Word. If those things aren&#8217;t present in the speaker, then they won&#8217;t listen to what the speaker has to say.</p>
<p>rhett</p>
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		<title>By: Adam Young</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143130</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm a youth pastor. 

I've never had a student come to me and compliment me for my clever use of analogies, using the right combination of scriptures, or a funny story. 

But I do hear students say "thank you" for opening myself up and reminding them that I am struggling through this with them. It empowers them to start struggling and wrestling with it too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a youth pastor. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never had a student come to me and compliment me for my clever use of analogies, using the right combination of scriptures, or a funny story. </p>
<p>But I do hear students say &#8220;thank you&#8221; for opening myself up and reminding them that I am struggling through this with them. It empowers them to start struggling and wrestling with it too.</p>
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		<title>By: Chilly</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143126</link>
		<dc:creator>Chilly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here's a principle I live by &#38; teach those I mentor:

"Don't pray for sermons, let sermons come from your prayers"

This means that prayer must be more than a 'santa claus relationship' with us doing all the talking, it requires listening and journaling. God speaks it to me and works it through me before I dare speak it to anyone else.  This causes me to use the pronoun 'we' a lot more than 'you' (and subsequently holsters my pointer finger - ha)...

We'll have a lot more confidence when we know God has given us the message rather than us coming up with something and then asking Him to bless it.

Looking forward to the dialog this week.  Thanks Craig!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a principle I live by &amp; teach those I mentor:</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t pray for sermons, let sermons come from your prayers&#8221;</p>
<p>This means that prayer must be more than a &#8217;santa claus relationship&#8217; with us doing all the talking, it requires listening and journaling. God speaks it to me and works it through me before I dare speak it to anyone else.  This causes me to use the pronoun &#8216;we&#8217; a lot more than &#8216;you&#8217; (and subsequently holsters my pointer finger - ha)&#8230;</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll have a lot more confidence when we know God has given us the message rather than us coming up with something and then asking Him to bless it.</p>
<p>Looking forward to the dialog this week.  Thanks Craig!</p>
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		<title>By: Jim Martin</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143119</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A couple of years ago, I was visiting with a pastor about some of the theology at his church and he told me that sometimes he'll say things from the pulpit he doesn't believe so people will go to the Bible and question him.

I wonder if anyone here has ever done that to "test" his or her flock.  It seemed irresponsible to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of years ago, I was visiting with a pastor about some of the theology at his church and he told me that sometimes he&#8217;ll say things from the pulpit he doesn&#8217;t believe so people will go to the Bible and question him.</p>
<p>I wonder if anyone here has ever done that to &#8220;test&#8221; his or her flock.  It seemed irresponsible to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Day</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143112</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig,
You are 100% correct.  I feel that I cheat our community if the scripture hasn't wrapped me first!  They know if you are preaching because it's Sunday or because God has burdened you with something.  For me, good communication is directly linked to my personal study of scripture.  If a passage has captivated me, I know that the talk will work because it comes from my heart, not my head or someone else.  

I also try to interject personal stories, struggles, doubts, etc. into my talk.  It is a subtle way to let people know that you are human too!

Craig, just curious...is there anyway you could share what one of your outlines looks like?  Maybe make the document available here?  I'd love to see how you organize your thoughts.  Just wondering...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig,<br />
You are 100% correct.  I feel that I cheat our community if the scripture hasn&#8217;t wrapped me first!  They know if you are preaching because it&#8217;s Sunday or because God has burdened you with something.  For me, good communication is directly linked to my personal study of scripture.  If a passage has captivated me, I know that the talk will work because it comes from my heart, not my head or someone else.  </p>
<p>I also try to interject personal stories, struggles, doubts, etc. into my talk.  It is a subtle way to let people know that you are human too!</p>
<p>Craig, just curious&#8230;is there anyway you could share what one of your outlines looks like?  Maybe make the document available here?  I&#8217;d love to see how you organize your thoughts.  Just wondering&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my speaking recently I shared about how much I really did not like Matthew 20:1-16.  I was honest about my struggles with the text and how I came to a point of loving it.  I was, truth be told, more authentic and transparent in this lesson than any in a long time.  It connected with many who were there.  

Everytime I am honest with the text and the people, God works through me.  

The Bible is a book of authenitic and transparent lives - all of the character flaws are laid out for all to see, why do we try to hid ours?

Thanks for the post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my speaking recently I shared about how much I really did not like Matthew 20:1-16.  I was honest about my struggles with the text and how I came to a point of loving it.  I was, truth be told, more authentic and transparent in this lesson than any in a long time.  It connected with many who were there.  </p>
<p>Everytime I am honest with the text and the people, God works through me.  </p>
<p>The Bible is a book of authenitic and transparent lives - all of the character flaws are laid out for all to see, why do we try to hid ours?</p>
<p>Thanks for the post!</p>
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		<title>By: Bill G</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143104</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:37:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great point!  I am not a Pastor and don't speak to large crowds but this topic is very real to me.  I have a very good friend that has done some junk in his past that he is struggling with today.  I had done the same thing but was keeping it as "my secret" for many years.  Having this skeleton in my closet prevented me from being authentic with him and other people that I would speak with.  I have since, with the help of Christ and my life group, put all my junk out there for all to see.  My God forgave me, my wife forgave me and my friends forgave me and I am now able to be truely authentic with my friend and anyone else that I may need to minister to.  The conversation means so much more now that I can be honest and share with him.  God is Good!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great point!  I am not a Pastor and don&#8217;t speak to large crowds but this topic is very real to me.  I have a very good friend that has done some junk in his past that he is struggling with today.  I had done the same thing but was keeping it as &#8220;my secret&#8221; for many years.  Having this skeleton in my closet prevented me from being authentic with him and other people that I would speak with.  I have since, with the help of Christ and my life group, put all my junk out there for all to see.  My God forgave me, my wife forgave me and my friends forgave me and I am now able to be truely authentic with my friend and anyone else that I may need to minister to.  The conversation means so much more now that I can be honest and share with him.  God is Good!</p>
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		<title>By: Andy Wood</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143103</link>
		<dc:creator>Andy Wood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:37:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two things help me here, but one only with time.

The first is something that has helped me for a long time - when in doubt, preach to myself.  Of course, it's important to let people know when you're doing that.

Second, preach to your own PAST mistakes, challenges, etc.  Share how you got it wrong, or learned to get it right, and where God was in the process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two things help me here, but one only with time.</p>
<p>The first is something that has helped me for a long time - when in doubt, preach to myself.  Of course, it&#8217;s important to let people know when you&#8217;re doing that.</p>
<p>Second, preach to your own PAST mistakes, challenges, etc.  Share how you got it wrong, or learned to get it right, and where God was in the process.</p>
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		<title>By: Camel Rider</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143101</link>
		<dc:creator>Camel Rider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post.  The other thing that goes hand in hand with transparency is trust.  As one under another leader I've learned that transparency can only happen where there is trust.  I've seen several on our team be transparent and it's come back to haunt them.  Why?  Because the leader sees transparency as a sign of weakness.  Maybe he was burned before...who knows.  But I do I'll only be transparent as a leader when I feel safe and unthreatened.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post.  The other thing that goes hand in hand with transparency is trust.  As one under another leader I&#8217;ve learned that transparency can only happen where there is trust.  I&#8217;ve seen several on our team be transparent and it&#8217;s come back to haunt them.  Why?  Because the leader sees transparency as a sign of weakness.  Maybe he was burned before&#8230;who knows.  But I do I&#8217;ll only be transparent as a leader when I feel safe and unthreatened.</p>
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		<title>By: Larry</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143097</link>
		<dc:creator>Larry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, you bring up a great point. What do you do when you're in a church like your friend's?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, you bring up a great point. What do you do when you&#8217;re in a church like your friend&#8217;s?</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Jones</title>
		<link>http://swerve.lifechurch.tv/2008/04/28/authentic-and-transparent-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-143092</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 13:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig,

Yeah ... that comment spun us into a whole different conversation. 

Right or wrong though I think there are probably lots of people like him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig,</p>
<p>Yeah &#8230; that comment spun us into a whole different conversation. </p>
<p>Right or wrong though I think there are probably lots of people like him.</p>
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